The Friendly Friday challenge is hosted alternately by The Snow Melts Somewhere and this week by Something to Ponder About. The theme this week is ‘Revisited’, which I thought would be easy, but then had to really think about.
In the end I chose somewhere that has been a large part of my life over the last 20 years or so, my Dad’s farm in Northland New Zealand. When he moved there with my stepmother Jackie originally, they lived in a converted garage building, with an outside ‘dunny’ that’s toilet to those who speak Kiwi/Aussie. They then built their house, having cut the trees from their own ‘bush’ (Forest), milled the wood, designed and built a house. Quite an epic challenge really.
The property was about 70 acres, largely of native bush, the beauty of which will always stay with me. The house evolved over time, to its final ‘finished’ state, but in reality it was an ever changing work of art, as were the gardens and land around it as you will see. When I first visited they were still living in the garage, the house was up, but empty inside apart from timber. Over the years as I revisited, I got to see the creation come to life, and at time helped when I could.
Dad moved from the farm a couple of years back. Age waits for no man, and a farm and property this size is a lot of hard work. All things come to an end, but please see below just some of the photos I have taken over the years.
These first photos were taken when I first got back to NZ as an adult back in 1995 to 1996. At this time only parts of the house were usable. The land around was still part building site. I had to post the photo with the spider as I never did work out how that got in the shot. I was living in Auckland for about a year and a half and used to get up to the farm when I could. When my brother and I had first arrived we had slept in the house with hammocks strung from the wooden batons inside.
Then these were taken about 5 years later on another trip down to NZ. They were living full time in the house although there was still plenty of work to do. Dad asked me to build him a Dinosaur, which was an interesting project. I used steel foundation poles, which I bent into shape anyway I could, often under the wheel of a tractor. I had to learn to weld as well, but it was a once in a lifetime opportunity. The space and materials. I had to include the shot of my younger brother Jamie with green hair sticking out of a Dinosaur bum!
The next shots were taken in 2006. The house was a lot more complete by this point, and the dinosaur had found a home. He still wasn’t finished, but looked comfortable on his newly built island.
A lot happened in the next ten years, my life changed considerably and I ended up with my two boys, the next great adventure. I took them to NZ in 2016, not long before the farm was sold, so at least they got to experience it. Sorry about the quantity of photos, but we had gone digital and I was working with a camera, and iphone and an ipad so many photos were taken. It was great to see the house complete, and to see the bush just the same as it had always been. Dino finally got his permanent coat. Over the years I had many adventures there, cutting down a hillside of tea tree with a chainsaw, spending all day digging a post out of clay, building the woolshed on Christmas day, hunting possum at night with my little brother, and of course building a dinosaur! So many different things, but mostly it was my home away from home. When I first arrived I was a young man with a backpack. When I revisited for the last time I was a Father approaching my half century!
Wow; that was epic. What prompted the dinosaur?? Great that your boys got to experience Kiwi rural living.
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My Dad has always been a bit off the wall. Typical Kiwi. He just wanted a Dinosaur, I thought why not build a big one! Yes, it was great for the boys. When they are a little older I’ll bring them back.
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I was very impressed with how natural the dinosaur looked in his final home. What a thing to come upon if one isn’t expected it!
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Yes, i was so happy when Dad finally housed it. It was made to be eating from a tree!
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That is SO cool. And yeah, typically Kiwi.
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Oh yeah!
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Time flies – such nostalgia in this post! Your kids are gorgeous. Happy you got to share this with them
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Thank you. Yes, I felt very nostalgic putting it together. One from the heart!
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I really enjoyed this brief visit with you and your family in New Zealand!
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Thank you. It was nice to share this.
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Good times to be had as a family. I really like the Punga, best food for Dino.
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There are no shortage of Pugas and palms in the bush. It’s subtropical so very lush.
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I would have asked about the dinosaur, as well, but I can see your answer to Su! Hilarious. Better by far than a garden gnome! Excellent photos. The spider on the lens and the head outside the dinosaur’s rear are favourites! I love that your father lived out his dream of building a bush paradise. Those hills remind me of Whitby outside Wellington. Where is Northland?
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It;s the far North of New Zealand, the nearest town is Kaitia, although the nearest village as such is Kaiangaroa, which is where I worked in a saw mill for a while. Good memories!
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hmm. I don’t know of it, but I haven’t been farther north than Hastings.
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Right. Well it’s a different world in Northland. If you ever get the chance. the Bay of Islands are beautiful, and the Kauri forests. It’s not very heavily populated though.
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Oh wow Gavin. We just got back from our 2 week holiday to the North Island. First time in NZ and it was great, lot’s to write about!
I’m glad your boys were able to experience the family farm before it was sold. 🙂
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Thank you. I have a lot of memories there. My family still all live around Whangerei. I hope you had a good trip!
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We sure did.
We visited the Whangarei Falls. Beautiful 😊
It’s such a beautiful country.
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Yes I agree with that. I have travelled most of it in my time and never been disappointed!
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Fascinating to see the house and landscape evolve. Building a home is an epic project. Great dino!
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Yes thank you. I am glad to have been a small part of that. My life has taken a different path and such a thing seems not possible.
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Magical series of photos. What a place! I don’t what I like the most… the dinosaur (obviously I salute the dinosaur idea! Respect), the gigantic plants which look like ferm, the house itself, the farm (wonderfull playground for both children and big boys I’m sure!)… What did it feel like when it was sold?
And I see the richness of genealogy in your boys now 😉
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Yes, wonderfully put. It is a shame the farm has gone, but it’s more about people than places at the end of the day!
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You’re right. I struggle with hindsight! I get attached to places as if they were people sometimes…
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Don’t get me wrong. I will always have a place in my heart for Dad’s farm. All the years I travelled it was the only constant in my life. But alas the way of the traveller is to never really have a home. Which is where the Firehorse comes from. It is my chinese star sign, a double fire sign, it pegs me as being the ultimate rolling stone!
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We sold the house where I grew up in in my late twenties… And you know what, in every single dream I have, if my house is involve, it is always THAT one. I’ve lived in many houses (rolling stone syndrome hey?!) though but my brain is stuck on that particular one.
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Thats funny you should say that. I have a recurring dream, even a couple of years back and it’s set in a blend of two of my childhood homes. Perhaps we see ourselves as having moved on, but the inner child craves the security of childhood.
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Maybe… The house was the only thing I knew. Contrary to your childhood I come from a very (geographically!) stable family. I’ve lived there all my life until I started to experience life, and different environment. It was Ground Control I was Major Tom!
Anyway the rest of the house is waking up.. Breakfast time! Have a great Sunday (bike ride??). Talk to you later!
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Yes, have a great day. My housework beckons!
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Ohh my, oh my, this was quite a life. What a gorgeous house, location, happy people and dino!! And you made it, the dino, how very well done! I love the most his final photo in the woods, your dad’s workshop, Punga (what is a punga, the plant?), and the one called Inside the house. It’s gorgeous!!! But all are fun and necessary in order to see the progression (yes, also of you showing off.) 😀 I’m glad your kids got to experience it as well.
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Thank you. It was a lot if fun, and showing off as you say! Dad designed the house with tree trunks as the main supports. It was interesting in a house of straight lines!
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It’s a beautiful house, and you mentioned “showing off” in one of your captions, not me. 😉 Besides, it’s showing off worthy, all of it!
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Thank you. I think so. For me it is strong memories as well.
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